After introspection I have written a few things that are valuable to us in our lives. Hope, you will find it helpful to better streamline your life. The list is short and simple, but, valuable.
1.Relatives
2.Money
3.Education
4.Values (based on values character makes choices)
5.Religion
6.Virtue/Character
7.Personality
8.Influence/community
9.Achievements
Friday, August 26, 2011
Thursday, August 25, 2011
A call from a company
I failed to tell you that I am searching for a job. Never ever have I missed a job so earnestly. I have realized the pain of not having a job and I shall never ever commit such harakiri. I am very serious about having one and next time it will never be me who will show my back. I am going to do it whole heartedly. Before I tell you this I shall tell you why I left my previous job. It is because for the whole and sole reason what every body knows is salary. Salary, Salary and only Salary. Salaries are the pride of any man it is a support for any woman. With this in mind I would never, never miss a job.
I received a call today from one of the employers to whom I had sent my resume' as per the advertisement given by them in one of the newspapers. 'Ascent' you must have heard it. It is quite a local name for job searchers and management columns. We all need jobs, don't we. I have to prepare as to what questions they would ask. The most valuable question is what were you doing for the past 10 months. I have the answer ready. I travelled across the city and faced 19 interviews along with my CV and could find none. I also sent online registration from naukri.com to nearly 150 companies. No reply from them at all. Either they don't want me or I don't want them. Some were within the city some were outside the city. I never ever thought that I would face such difficult times finding a job and working for it. My work ethic is never questionable, and that is what I fear. Sometimes I take it too far ahead without realizing it. Any way, wish me all the best for my new job as Executive Assistant to MD.
Adieu!
I received a call today from one of the employers to whom I had sent my resume' as per the advertisement given by them in one of the newspapers. 'Ascent' you must have heard it. It is quite a local name for job searchers and management columns. We all need jobs, don't we. I have to prepare as to what questions they would ask. The most valuable question is what were you doing for the past 10 months. I have the answer ready. I travelled across the city and faced 19 interviews along with my CV and could find none. I also sent online registration from naukri.com to nearly 150 companies. No reply from them at all. Either they don't want me or I don't want them. Some were within the city some were outside the city. I never ever thought that I would face such difficult times finding a job and working for it. My work ethic is never questionable, and that is what I fear. Sometimes I take it too far ahead without realizing it. Any way, wish me all the best for my new job as Executive Assistant to MD.
Adieu!
Honest ways of earning money
Have you ever tried in your lives about the many ways of earning money. The most Honest ways H capital because I really mean Honest one is supposed to do it in ways like
1.Become a producer eg. you may become farmer, operate mines and drill the sea for petrol and many other similar ventures available directly from symbiosis with nature.
2.Become an employee i.e. do what the employer says.
3.Become an employer i.e. do what the world wants
4.Become a professional i.e. help others about what you know.
5.Become a shareholder - i.e. Let them give their money and you make something big and return them what they want. This cycle is continuous
6.Sell products and services and information - i.e. make profits.
7.Finally, become a middle man or a trader.
The list is exhaustive. You can always place somebody in one of the above ways. They are honest ways of living and acceptable ways. No doubt there are some hooligans who may try to bend rules, but for them there is jail.
Opt, which one do you like.
1.Become a producer eg. you may become farmer, operate mines and drill the sea for petrol and many other similar ventures available directly from symbiosis with nature.
2.Become an employee i.e. do what the employer says.
3.Become an employer i.e. do what the world wants
4.Become a professional i.e. help others about what you know.
5.Become a shareholder - i.e. Let them give their money and you make something big and return them what they want. This cycle is continuous
6.Sell products and services and information - i.e. make profits.
7.Finally, become a middle man or a trader.
The list is exhaustive. You can always place somebody in one of the above ways. They are honest ways of living and acceptable ways. No doubt there are some hooligans who may try to bend rules, but for them there is jail.
Opt, which one do you like.
Writing and engineering
I have progressed by being a once in a while writer to a diligent, consistent writer. Writing is a passion for me. I cannot leave it. Just as I cannot leave my typing. Typing has a wonderful scope today. Moreover, if you can write well and think clear then you have abundance opportunities left. I am proud that I have done my graduate when only 6% of the people do graduation in a country like ours. Moreover, there are fewer engineers. You may ask me what is common about writing and being an engineer. I have found personally, not hurting anybodies feeling that engineers are hard working and pretty sincere in what they do. This is not only true for me but also for others. I must say that they are working hard without even seeing them. This is how we were brought up. Our syllabus was vast, our assignments were gruelling and we have to say yes in the most difficult of times. Now a days, people don't value hard working people. They have a bent for smarter people. This thought has been going on in my mind whether I should be hard working as I used to be or become smarter. I still would place my bet in hard working category. Why you may ask? The reason is your opinion about smart people will soon change when they fool you. You enjoy if they fool others but you show your anger when they cheat you. This is not fair. What is common with engineering and writing. First, point is that they both require hard work. They both require proper method and rigorous training to become one. Some acquire writing skills but they fail to captivate the hearts of people. This only shows that they ahve not prepared well or they are fooling the people who would read them. Engineers never fool. Very small percentage of people do so and fail to meet the expectation of the world. Saying engineering is the best is also not right. You find capable individuals in different fields with different backgrounds and all of them equally eligible for taking big assignments. These things matter a lot for a person who is doing well.
Are marriages made in heaven?
Dear Friends, Things have changed and I am grown up. Time for most other things are fleeting. Much have I acquired over the past few years. Learning has been immeasurable. I have made my friends and foes. They are however not so serious. Any way, coming back. I was about to tell you when would I marry. The first thing would be to ask whether YOU are married. If that is the case. Please share your experience. I am hungry for knowing what happens to anyone after marriage. Are your family members really a burden? Do you see sacrifice the what you are doing is an irrational argument with life? Is this sacrifice better on this side or on that side? All these things are cropping on my mind for the time being. I too have crossed 30 years. People generally marry somewhere here only. Moreover, there is not much that I can promise to my spouse; The fact is I don' t know anyone. The whom I knew left. There is not much to talk about. Marriage as they say is made in heaven. I doubt. Nothing by man is made in heaven except the rain drops that we see. I don't find myself competent in this area of life. Once again if possible kindly reply back to me. I am wholeheartedly waiting for your response. I may disagree in certain areas of your life you have made a decision to marry a wrong person, this only future will tell as to who has made the right decision and who has made a wrong one. Happy married life. Learn something from somebody who have married happily.
Thankyou in advance.
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