Are marriages made in heaven?

Dear Friends, Things have changed and I am grown up. Time for most other things are fleeting. Much have I acquired over the past few years. Learning has been immeasurable. I have made my friends and foes. They are however not so serious. Any way, coming back. I was about to tell you when would I marry. The first thing would be to ask whether YOU are married. If that is the case. Please share your experience. I am hungry for knowing what happens to anyone after marriage. Are your family members really a burden? Do you see sacrifice the what you are doing is an irrational argument with life? Is this sacrifice better on this side or on that side? All these things are cropping on my mind for the time being. I too have crossed 30 years. People generally marry somewhere here only. Moreover, there is not much that I can promise to my spouse; The fact is I don' t know anyone. The whom I knew left. There is not much to talk about. Marriage as they say is made in heaven. I doubt. Nothing by man is made in heaven except the rain drops that we see. I don't find myself competent in this area of life. Once again if possible kindly reply back to me. I am wholeheartedly waiting for your response. I may disagree in certain areas of your life you have made a decision to marry a wrong person, this only future will tell as to who has made the right decision and who has made a wrong one. Happy married life. Learn something from somebody who have married happily.

Thankyou in advance.

Marriage ended up well

Today there was a marriage near my house in one of the halls. I think no doubt it was a good marriage and my blessings to both groom and bride but the people who were outside the marriage didn't have the civility to keep quite and allow the marriage procession go smoothly.

They were shouting swear words outside the hall and it made the whole marriage efforts dismal. This is not the procession where you want to end up in fights. Some people were entertained by the fight and others were crippled and could do nothing about it, even though their cerebrum said leave the place.

I asked what was going on and there were none who could answer my question. Even they were baffled. Then again there were swear words that people insulted each other. God forbade I think it did not end up in a nasty fight.

We regret marriage processions like this, certainly the parents of the groom and the bride would not have liked the marriage to continue in this way.